- להאזנה דרשות 060 ויצא יעקב מבאר שבע תשע
Empowering Yourself to Survive Evil
- להאזנה דרשות 060 ויצא יעקב מבאר שבע תשע
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How Yaakov Avinu Prepared To Live With Bad Influences
“And Yaakov went out of Beer Sheva and went to Charan…” Rashi states that on that night he slept, but until then, Yaakov did not sleep for the 14 years that he learned by Shem and Ever.
The 14 years which he served Lavan for paralleled the years he spent in yeshivah. Not only did he study in the yeshivah of Shem and Ever, he totally immersed himself in his Torah study there by feigning sleep for 14 years. Why did he need to do this? When Yaakov left the holy atmosphere that he had enjoyed in the home of Yitzchak and Rivkah, now that he was no longer in a good environment he would need to develop the spiritual power to survive the bad influences of Lavan. He was leaving his home to go to a place of evil, the house of Lavan, who was immersed in sorcery and tumah (the forces of impurity). In order to survive it, he would have to prepare for it by learning Torah.
What about the fact that he was coming from such a holy home, the home of his parents Yitzchok and Rivkah? Why wasn’t that enough to protect him? That alone wasn’t going to be enough to protect him from the evil influences of Lavan. In order to survive Lavan, he had to learn Torah for 14 years. He needed to become the ish tam yoishev ohalim (“a wholesome man who sits in the tents”) and only through that could he go out into the world and contend with the evil influences of the world.
The Ohr HaChaim said that in Egypt, the Jewish people were in the 49th level of impurity, and had we remained there for even one more moment, it would have been the 50th level, which is impossible to exit from - and that in the final exile, we will sink to the “50th level of impurity”, and it will be naturally impossible to come out of it. The only way to exit it will be through the power of Torah. Only the Torah can take a person out of the worst levels of impurity. In Egypt we didn’t have the Torah, so we had to get out before it was too late. But in the exile, at least we have the Torah, and it is the Torah that can take us out of the worst levels of impurity which we found ourselves in.
When Yaakov left his home to go to Lavan, he needed a strong kind of holiness that would be able to counter the evil he was entering, and that was why he went to go learn Torah for 14 years beforehand. He gave himself the tools to fight with. If one learns Torah for a long amount of time like that, he can go out into the world and survive its bad influences. If he doesn’t have his Torah learning to protect him, he doesn’t have a chance.
The 50th Level of Impurity Is Here
We are now deep in the 50th level of impurity, the shaar HaNun d’tumah. But we also have a power which can counter all the evil we have seen. However, it is still our choice if we will connect to that power or not.
How can we face the evil of the outside? How can we really deal with it and overcome it? I am not referring to the outside world, to the streets. I am referring to the outside influences that have entered the private domains of our homes. “There is no home which does have a corpse in it.”
But Hashem saw that we will go through all this. He saw that we will be surrounded with impurity, and that even those who try to keep the Torah will be influenced. He gave us a power to deal with all the impurity. We have free choice to use it. What is that power of free choice that we have?
Firstly, it should pain a person how the world looks today! When you walk in the street, your heart can be broken inside about the situation of Klal Yisrael today, and our own personal situations as well. One of the Sages said [about the coming of Moshiach], “Let him come, but I don’t want to be there when he comes.” The Sages didn’t think they could survive our times, because they know that their spiritual sensitivity wouldn’t be able to take it. Only us, who are not so sensitive to spirituality, can survive these times, because it doesn’t bother us that much anyway.
A person today says “Baruch Hashem, there is a lot of Torah learning going on, there are many people sitting and learning. There aren’t as many yeshivos and gemachim as there are today!” True. But this won’t be enough to help us counter all the evil we are facing.
There is a verse, “Go my nation, go into your room, close your doors behind you….until the wrath passes.” Hashem placed us in this situation in which the world is so impure - but He gave us a plan to, in how to come out of it….
The Chofetz Chaim already said 100 years ago that the world can’t survive anymore if Moshiach doesn’t come in his time. It is now 100 years after he said that. There is a lot of Torah today, but how much truth is there? How much heart is there? How much escape from falsity is there? How enslaved are people to the outside world? What is the level of connection that people have with Hashem, a true bond with the Torah? There are a few exceptional individuals who possess special souls, but it still pales in comparison to the general situation of most people.
These words are simple and clear. There are no novel ideas here at all.
The Individual’s Choice Today
The true kind of life can be gained by anyone in any place, as long as he chooses so; whether it is man, woman, or child. It is not too far from us; as the verse says, “the matter is very close to you”. But we must make it into our desire.
This week of Parshas Vayeitzei (5771) will soon disappear, and never come back again. Some people will say that the words here are too harsh, and others will say that it’s talking negatively about the Jewish people, and others will say that the words here are true. But what will happen after you heart all this? What will change? Everything just goes back to usual routine. Only Moshiach will be able to change the situation of the masses. But each person, individually, can make a choice.
Every moment, each individual person has the choice to decide if he will truly connect himself to Hashem and to His Torah, and to understand that This World is really Gehinnom (hell) – no exaggeration here. That’s the reality now. This is because, in the Next World, even in Gehinnom, there is no tumah, no bad influences of evil that harm our neshamos. On this world though, which is very impure right now and full of the worst levels of tumah, it’s a much worse Gehinnom than the Gehinnom upstairs.
Are We Ready To Really Change?
There are so many baalei teshuvah today, who have left behind their entire past and upbringing, so that they could change over completely. They made a huge overhaul in their life, they have left their life behind completely so that they can live a life of truth. What about us? Are we, the bnei Torah, also capable of leaving all bad influences behind us? Can we make such changes too?
We need to return to the way the Chofetz Chaim lived, to the way the Ben Ish Chai lived, to the same life of purity and holiness which they lived with, and not to stay with the false kind of life this world lives. It includes abandoning the new styles of dressing today, the so-called acceptable conduct of today, the whole slang and language of today’s times, the various taavos (desires) that are so rampant in today’s times – and we need to return, to what we really should want, to the desires that our Avos, our forefathers and all of the tzaddikim throughout the generations, always wanted.
Why Don’t The Gedolim Speak This Way?
Some will say to all of this, “If you’re right about all this, then why aren’t the Gedolim speaking about this? Why are our Gedolim letting things continue the way they are?”
Someone once asked Rav Elyashiv zt”l why he doesn’t give mussar to the generation. Rav Elyashiv said, “If I would tell people what I really want to say to them, do you think there is even one person who will listen to me?”
What Is The Way To View Today’s Generation?
There are generally two kinds of people today. Some people feel that we should only focus on the positive: “Our generation is wonderful, even better than the previous generations. Everything is great. Sure, we need to improve on some things, but overall, everything is great. This is the way to look at everything today, and that’s the way it should be.” Others, though, are aware of the truthful situation of our generation today, they are well aware of all the problems and issues of today, but they feel, “There is nothing we can do to change the situation. After all, we don’t live in the desert anymore. We live as civilized people, amongst civilization, and we have families to take care of. We need to get real and be practical. I cannot be the Avraham Avinu of this generation and be different than everybody else. What should I do already about it?!”
That is a very good justification. It’s a good defense. But the real issue that we need to wonder about is: Do we have really any kind of inner world inside of us which can counter the outside world we are in?
The Key To Spiritual Survival Today Is By Developing Our Inner World
Yaakov learned by Shem and Ever before he went to Lavan. In order to prepare for Lavan’s trickery, he had to learn Torah. He had a good excuse for not having to learn – his parents told him to go there to find a marriage partner. He knew that he had to go there, because his life was in danger from Esav. But he was still going to the home of Lavan, who was full of impurity. He knew that in order to survive it, he will have to learn Torah for 14 years. In other words, he developed his inner spiritual world to fortify himself, so that he could face Lavan’s evil. He went to the beis midrash and truly learned Torah there, immersing himself there. He didn’t just go to a big beis midrash and learn Torah there over the phone. He went there to truly learn Torah, barely sleeping for 14 years, so that he could gain the spiritual strength to fortify himself. Of course, it was still hard for him after that and he had plenty of challenges to follow. But he developed the power to at least have a chance to withstand Lavan, and he did.
It seems that the outside world can provide us with some chiyus, with life-giving vitality. After all, we see that many people fool themselves into thinking that the outside world does have what to offer us. Indeed, if a person does have real and deep chiyus today, and he is connected in mind and heart to the Torah he learns, and he is connected to the mitzvos he does, he is connected in mind and heart to Hashem. Such a person has a chance of fighting the evil of today’s times. But if a person is not getting enough chiyus from Torah, mitzvos, and from the One who gave us the Torah, then he doesn’t stand a chance of being able to win over the evil in today’s times. He won’t have the tools to succeed in overcoming the evil of today.
The intention here is not chas v’shalom to cause you to despair or to become depressed. Rather, it is meant to help you become aware of how to fight the war against evil. When you go out to war, you need to know how to prepare, and to recognize how the [spiritual] war keeps changing. The [spiritual] war today has changed in the last couple of years. Today, the only way to survive the outside influences which have crept into our homes, is by developing our own inner world within us.
This is not meant to be inspiration, which just comes and goes. It is referring to the very inner depth of what our life is all about, to be connected to what the truth is and to live it.
The Difficulty In Speaking About This Publicly
I will tell you this: I have a very hard time talking about this, and for two reasons.
(1) The first reason is because the inner essence of every Jew (besides for souls of the Erev Rav, who are not part of the Jewish people) is, that we all have a holy and pure neshamah, and it is just that the “garments” covering our neshamah are not always proper. It’s like a person who has a child who goes astray, and he has to separate him from his other children - it is painful, even though he knows he has to do it.
(2) Even more so, the very fact that there is such a level of evil like this in this world is already a difficulty to deal with and so hard to even talk about. It’s much easier to sit comfortably in the beis midrash and learn Torah pleasantly, reveling in the joy of Torah chiddushim – than to have to talk about the outside world, which is full of evil.
I don’t know at all if the words spoken here will be of any use to you. But perhaps if it will help even one person change and realize the truth - not because I am saying it, but because the person himself has come to that conclusion, and he will truly decide to give himself over to Hashem and to His Torah - through that, perhaps that person will be able to survive the world today.
I am sure that at least two or three people, or more, will say about this that the words here are too extreme and that they are far from how to understand our current situation. But if there is someone here who doesn’t have a heart of stone and his eyes can see a bit clearly, and he’s not enslaved to his desires, then he sees the truth as it is.
If I slighted anyone’s honor here with the words I said here, I ask forgiveness of you. If the words here helped anyone here, then that will be my entire reward from this.
(from Derashos_060_Empowering Yourself To Survive Evil.5771)
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